I was just thinking this morning that I hadn't heard from Timea for a few weeks. I figured she probably got tired of me and I haven't been terribly excited to contact her. Plus I have been busy with Amanda, Tish, and Cindra.
Then today I get a text from Timea complaining that she just got her first speeding ticket ever. She asked how I was doing but nothing about wanting to get together. *shrug*
Wednesday, March 28, 2012
Tuesday, March 27, 2012
Woman Pleaser
I am considering offering my time & services to women in exchange for money. I am not thinking a lot of money, somewhere in the neighborhood of $20/hour.
Its a basic escort type idea, women would pay for my time to do whatever: go on a date, receive a massage, have someone to talk to, etc.
Amanda thinks I would just be creepy and scare off any potential customers.
Cindra thought it was a great idea!
Tish thinks I would need to charge more! lol
I have no idea how I would find clients and my schedule would likely get super crazy. But I could meet lots of interesting people this way!
Its a basic escort type idea, women would pay for my time to do whatever: go on a date, receive a massage, have someone to talk to, etc.
Amanda thinks I would just be creepy and scare off any potential customers.
Cindra thought it was a great idea!
Tish thinks I would need to charge more! lol
I have no idea how I would find clients and my schedule would likely get super crazy. But I could meet lots of interesting people this way!
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
Small Update
Met Tish Saturday evening. We went to The Cheesecake Factory then we saw "This Means War". Funny movie, great for any date including a first date :)
Tonight I am probably going to have dinner with Cindra whenever she gets done with work. :)
Tonight I am probably going to have dinner with Cindra whenever she gets done with work. :)
Friday, March 9, 2012
Drunk Texting?
Timea has Fridays off so Thursday nights she can stay up later. Last night it was pretty obvious she wanted to do something. It was also obvious she didn't want to do something with me. I am fine with that.
Then I get a text from her at 1:24am. Obviously drunk and somewhat provocative. I was sleeping so I didn't see it til I got up in the morning. Right after reading it, she sent me another text apologizing and saying that text was meant for someone else.
Great. So she wants to go out to play, but not with me. She wants to text & hook up, but not with me. Then she intentionally points out that her attention is not for me.
Ok, whatever. Time to end this deal.
Then I get a text from her at 1:24am. Obviously drunk and somewhat provocative. I was sleeping so I didn't see it til I got up in the morning. Right after reading it, she sent me another text apologizing and saying that text was meant for someone else.
Great. So she wants to go out to play, but not with me. She wants to text & hook up, but not with me. Then she intentionally points out that her attention is not for me.
Ok, whatever. Time to end this deal.
Thursday, March 8, 2012
Where I'm at
I had a good time with Cindra last night. The movie was a bit odd but interesting. We talked and hung out for a while then she went home.
I texted back and forth with Tish quite a bit yesterday. We are going to meet up Saturday evening. I am very much looking forward to it :)
I am having increasing difficulty in focusing and I don't think these women are helping the situation lol. How long until I can go home again?
I texted back and forth with Tish quite a bit yesterday. We are going to meet up Saturday evening. I am very much looking forward to it :)
I am having increasing difficulty in focusing and I don't think these women are helping the situation lol. How long until I can go home again?
Wednesday, March 7, 2012
Date with Cindra
I have a date tonight with Cindra. She is coming over to my place to watch a movie. It is a movie called Dead Ringers. I have never heard of it but Cindra wants to show it to me.
Wednesday night is her Saturday night, not sure that that really means anything here though lol.
Wednesday night is her Saturday night, not sure that that really means anything here though lol.
Tish
I emailed back and forth with Tish for quite a while last night. I am very excited to meet her :) She likes married men and seems to be as lonely as I am.
I am optimistic that this will go somewhere :) Maybe I won't have to eat sushi by myself!
I am optimistic that this will go somewhere :) Maybe I won't have to eat sushi by myself!
Tuesday, March 6, 2012
2 New Players?
Yesterday I posted another ad on craigslist. An 'all cards on the table' strategy.
This evening I actually got a response! A cute 36 year old Asian woman named Tish.
Shortly after that, I received a text from a woman who I had responded to over a week ago.
We will see where these go!
This evening I actually got a response! A cute 36 year old Asian woman named Tish.
Shortly after that, I received a text from a woman who I had responded to over a week ago.
We will see where these go!
Last Night
So I am still confused about what I am doing with Timea. Still no idea what she wants or what she is getting out of this. I know what I want and would like to move our relationship to the next level.
Last night she was in a meeting for work until 10pm. We were texting a bit until she got done with the meeting.
I sent her a text saying "Feel free to stop by if you want to get laid ;)". This was intended to be a playful offer that I didn't really expect her to accept. I was really trying to feel out where we were at and where we were going. I got a pretty good idea from her response.
"Hmmm? I hope you are joking. Good night." she texted back.
I haven't heard from her since. And I am not quite sure what to make of her response. Obviously she isn't interested in sex at all. It even seems that she is offended that I would mention it?
Last night she was in a meeting for work until 10pm. We were texting a bit until she got done with the meeting.
I sent her a text saying "Feel free to stop by if you want to get laid ;)". This was intended to be a playful offer that I didn't really expect her to accept. I was really trying to feel out where we were at and where we were going. I got a pretty good idea from her response.
"Hmmm? I hope you are joking. Good night." she texted back.
I haven't heard from her since. And I am not quite sure what to make of her response. Obviously she isn't interested in sex at all. It even seems that she is offended that I would mention it?
Mike
My roommate Mike is quite a character. I have never had a roommate before and this is shaping up to be a very interesting experience.
Mike is 56 years old. He is black, originally from west Africa, grew up in France and has lived in LA for 22 years. He has a very thick french accent which is hard to understand at times.
Mike is very much a ladies man and is always out looking to meet women. Always talking with various women on the phone. And always talking about the women he has met.
Mike is 56 years old. He is black, originally from west Africa, grew up in France and has lived in LA for 22 years. He has a very thick french accent which is hard to understand at times.
Mike is very much a ladies man and is always out looking to meet women. Always talking with various women on the phone. And always talking about the women he has met.
Cindra
While I was looking for a place to live, one of the people I talked to was Cindra. I didn't ever actually meet her while looking for an apartment, her schedule and mine never aligned. We emailed back and forth a bit and talked on the phone once.
After I had found a place (at least I thought I had found a place), I was thinking about how I wouldn't get to meet Cindra since I was no longer looking. I knew very little about her but still wanted to meet her. I took the initiative and contacted her about being her friend. She was a bit confused but agreed to meet me anyway.
I had no idea what she looked like or how old she was until right before meeting her. On the phone she described herself (so I could recognize her when we met) and told me she was 58. Now I could tell that she was older than me by our conversation on the phone, but I had no idea she was that much older than me. To me this was fine and possibly even a bit exciting.
We had dinner and chatted for a bit then parted company. About a week later, she invited me to come over to her place and have dinner. We talked more over dinner and wine and I went home.
At this point I realized that if I wanted to pursue any kind of romantic relation ship here (which I did), I was going to have to make that very clear. So I basically told her flat out that I was interested in an intimate relationship. This caught her slightly off guard but she seemed to be interested in the idea.
We went out a few more times and talked a lot. It became very clear to me that she was much better at this dating game than I was. She was even using moves I use against me! Things progressed and we got closer.
One evening we went out to dinner and a dance performance. We both were pretty clear on what was going to happen after we got done with the date. We went back to her place. Right before crossing the finish line, she took everything I wanted sexually off of the table.
WTF? My princess is in another castle!?
This leaves me in a somewhat disappointing place with Cindra. I really like talking to her and being with her, but there is nothing beyond that for me :(
After I had found a place (at least I thought I had found a place), I was thinking about how I wouldn't get to meet Cindra since I was no longer looking. I knew very little about her but still wanted to meet her. I took the initiative and contacted her about being her friend. She was a bit confused but agreed to meet me anyway.
I had no idea what she looked like or how old she was until right before meeting her. On the phone she described herself (so I could recognize her when we met) and told me she was 58. Now I could tell that she was older than me by our conversation on the phone, but I had no idea she was that much older than me. To me this was fine and possibly even a bit exciting.
We had dinner and chatted for a bit then parted company. About a week later, she invited me to come over to her place and have dinner. We talked more over dinner and wine and I went home.
At this point I realized that if I wanted to pursue any kind of romantic relation ship here (which I did), I was going to have to make that very clear. So I basically told her flat out that I was interested in an intimate relationship. This caught her slightly off guard but she seemed to be interested in the idea.
We went out a few more times and talked a lot. It became very clear to me that she was much better at this dating game than I was. She was even using moves I use against me! Things progressed and we got closer.
One evening we went out to dinner and a dance performance. We both were pretty clear on what was going to happen after we got done with the date. We went back to her place. Right before crossing the finish line, she took everything I wanted sexually off of the table.
WTF? My princess is in another castle!?
This leaves me in a somewhat disappointing place with Cindra. I really like talking to her and being with her, but there is nothing beyond that for me :(
Timea
I have only had one real response from a multitude of craigslist postings so far. Timea responded to one of my posts. After a few emails back and forth we met up for coffee and chatted.
Timea is a gorgeous little Russian blonde woman. She always has lots of stuff going on and I really like her. We went out a few times with barely even any physical contact at all. Then she started being flaky and acting like she wasn't really interested. So I backed off.
A few weeks went by without hearing from her. Then she sent me a text asking what happened to me. I explained that she didn't seem very interested so I backed off. She ended up coming over to my place to hang out one evening. She let me massage her while we were watching TV and we made out a little before she went home.
A couple more weeks go buy and she is still very flaky. She cancels plans or simply doesn't show up more than follows through. I tried to ask her what she wanted out of this and tried to figure out where this relationship was going. She refused to tell me what she wants or even what she likes. I didn't let her dodge the issue, but she just flat out refuses to answer.
Her mother is coming to visit her soon. She is painting her apartment and she bought all new furniture to impress her mother. I am thinking that she might just want to use me to look good for her mother. If my suspicion here is correct, she is in for a big surprise. I simply will not go along with that plan :)
Timea is a gorgeous little Russian blonde woman. She always has lots of stuff going on and I really like her. We went out a few times with barely even any physical contact at all. Then she started being flaky and acting like she wasn't really interested. So I backed off.
A few weeks went by without hearing from her. Then she sent me a text asking what happened to me. I explained that she didn't seem very interested so I backed off. She ended up coming over to my place to hang out one evening. She let me massage her while we were watching TV and we made out a little before she went home.
A couple more weeks go buy and she is still very flaky. She cancels plans or simply doesn't show up more than follows through. I tried to ask her what she wanted out of this and tried to figure out where this relationship was going. She refused to tell me what she wants or even what she likes. I didn't let her dodge the issue, but she just flat out refuses to answer.
Her mother is coming to visit her soon. She is painting her apartment and she bought all new furniture to impress her mother. I am thinking that she might just want to use me to look good for her mother. If my suspicion here is correct, she is in for a big surprise. I simply will not go along with that plan :)
The Backstory
I got to LA on Jan 8th, 2012. I was living in a crappy little motel right near the office. My first order of business was to find a more permanent place to live.
Since this is only a temporary living situation, I didn't want to get a place on my own. That would mean buying furniture, dishes, appliances, etc. I would also have to figure out what to do with all that crap once I am done here in LA. So that leaves me looking at roommates.
I have never had a roommate before but luckily this area is fairly expensive and lots are looking for roommates. So for the first few weeks, I spent my evenings walking around meeting people and looking at rooms for rent.
During this initial time of separation from my wife and kids, loneliness set in rather quickly for both myself and my wife. We both turned to craigslist to try to find answers to our problem. It turns out that women can get sex easily but really just want dates. Men can get dates easily but really just want sex. This is totally skewed in one direction!
Since this is only a temporary living situation, I didn't want to get a place on my own. That would mean buying furniture, dishes, appliances, etc. I would also have to figure out what to do with all that crap once I am done here in LA. So that leaves me looking at roommates.
I have never had a roommate before but luckily this area is fairly expensive and lots are looking for roommates. So for the first few weeks, I spent my evenings walking around meeting people and looking at rooms for rent.
During this initial time of separation from my wife and kids, loneliness set in rather quickly for both myself and my wife. We both turned to craigslist to try to find answers to our problem. It turns out that women can get sex easily but really just want dates. Men can get dates easily but really just want sex. This is totally skewed in one direction!
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